Asking someone out on a date isn't as difficult as we often want to make it. The less pressure you put on yourself, the easier it is.
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Steps to help asking someone out on a date: 1. Introduce yourself and get their phone number. 2. Call, remind them of your meeting, ask them out for something casual. 3. If they say yes, offer something fun. 4. Enjoy yourself! |
First, introduce yourself to the person you like. Ask them for their phone number, or get it from a mutual friend. Call them at a good time, reintroduce yourself and remind them where you met, "Hi, this is Jack Thompson, we met at the concert", and ask them if they want to go out for coffee, or do something else casual. If they refuse, be polite and get off the phone.
For date ideas, you can consult Romancetips.com, they offer several dozen ideas for you to use in your dating life.
Some of their better ideas for a first date include going to a museum, a picnic in the park, going ice skating or roller skating, go to a coffeeshop that offers music on the weekends, go to a local high school play, go to a sporting event, or go to the local zoo.
It is recommended you don't go to a movie on your first date, it doesn't give much opportunity for you to talk, be creative and be casual when you decide what to do.
Most of all, be yourself, enjoy the time you have together, and learn from the experience.
